While there are certain ages for babies to accomplish some activities like using the spoon, drinking from the cup, sitting on the 'potty' or calling out when he wants to void urine, not all babies may follow these standard of development. There may be normal variations. It is observed that  not all children are ready to be trained at the same age.

A child is not ready for training until he has reached a certain stage of physical, mental and emotional development.

Therefore parents need not " expect too much " nor " too soon." Scolding, embarrassing or nagging will not hasten what parents expect.

Some upsetting or frightening experience may delay or put a setback to baby's training. examples are the departure of a close member of the family or even a maid; an illness; an accident.

Discontinue trying a procedure if it provides to be tedious or uninteresting or annoying; then try again later.

Expression of word of disappointment or displeasure maybe discouraging to the child and he may detect or sense it no matter how small he may be.

Conversely, cheerful encouraging words or actions may help the child to do better.

Pampering and giving it to the child's wishes and whims may delay control of his bowels or bladder.

An understanding, sympathetic, reasonable guidance is important.


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